Happy Birthday Buddha

On our final day in Gyeongji we wanted to go out for the famed Korean BBQ. I looked up some reviews and found a restaurant called Judon that boasts a rare perfect 5/5 score from 39 reviews. We used Google translate to let the waiter know that we were newbies and he set to work on showing us how to grill our pork belly, cheek, and neck, then which sauce combinations to use. Even though I am not a big meat eater it was so good that we had to order another round of pork belly. Suffice it to say that the restaurant now has 40 perfect reviews.

We made our way south to the metropolis of Busan, Korea’s 2nd largest city. It is a sprawling city with a good metro system. We enjoyed exploring the skinny walkways and streets of the colourful Gamcheon Culture Village.

The Igidae Coastal Walk was a great way to spend a sunny afternoon. We had great views of the turquoise ocean and the city skyline.

My highlight of Busan was Samgwangsa Temple, which was lit up with 40,000 lanterns in preparation for Buddha’s birthday. 

Because of the birthday holiday weekend we didn’t see any accommodations in Seoul that matched our shoestring budget, so we decided to do something from my bucket list that wouldn’t really appeal to RobO… stay at a jjimjilbang. These are public 24 hour bath houses that have a variety of hot pools, saunas, scrub-down options, and resting/sleeping areas. If you’ve been a longtime blog reader you may remember that RobO and I are not newbies in the bath house experience, but Korea adds another layer (or maybe I should say ‘takes off another layer’??) from my previous experiences. The place is divided by gender and the baths are FULLY naked. It only took a few minutes for Dee and I to shed our prudish cultural upbringings and feel pretty normal about hanging out (literally) in our birthday suits… for like, 5 hours.

We had no idea what to expect with the sleepover part of it, but it was… an experience. We were given these orange pyjamas that made us feel like we were on Orange is the New Black, and we laid on the heated floor of the sleeping room with a hard foam block for a pillow. When we went to ‘bed’ it seemed pretty organized, with women laying around the outside of the room, but when I woke up in the night I quickly realized that it had become a free-for-all, with people EVERYWHERE! There were women on either side of me like sausages in a pan and if I stretched my legs out straight I was kicking someone. I’m sure you can deduce that it wasn’t my *greatest* sleep, but I sure felt better after some early morning naked hot tub/sauna/scrubbing time with Dee! You’re welcome, RobO, for checking this one off the list without you!

We’re in wall-to-wall traffic (holiday weekend!), heading to the coast for some more hiking and eats. I’ll leave you with some more delicious food pics, as it has been so great to taste so many different dishes.

Jjajangmyeon: black bean noodles that are often ‘comfort food’ here
Hotteok: a sweet fried pancake filled with honey and either seeds or cheese. One of the best desserts we’ve tried.
Japchae: stir fried glass noodles with veggies
Spicy Bulgogi (braised pork)

More Temples!

I arrived to Seoul late at night and met up with my OT friend Dee, who had been in Seoul for 5 days prior to my arrival. We hit the ground running, as she had booked us on the 6:30am bus headed south. One of the only things we had pre booked was a 3 day temple stay at Golgulsa Temple.

We chose this temple stay because it had a lot of activities, one of which being twice per day training in Sonmudo, a Korean martial art that includes a combination of yoga, meditation, qi gong, and zen martial arts. I fell in love with the training: the amount of concentration, balance, and power required, the slow movements to engage all of our tiny muscles, and the amount of improvements we saw after just 5 sessions. Since Dee and I were doing the moves and couldn’t take pictures of ourselves, I’ll post some shots of what we looked like.

We were given outfits to wear during our temple stay and, of course, one of the first things we did was a photoshoot posing in them!

We got to go to the beach one morning (in our outfits, plus a hat!) to do our training on the rocky beach.

We also practiced 108 prostrations (a difficult bowing technique), chanting, different types of meditations, yoga, and ate delicious Korean vegetarian food. It was a great start to my Korean adventures.

The temple was all dressed up with lanterns for the upcoming holiday of Buddha’s birthday (May 5 this year). We’ve seen this at all of the temples that we’ve visited.

Next up we visited Gyeongju, which is an ancient capital city and has been described as a ‘museum without walls’. It has ancient tombs throughout the city, which actually look like huge mounds of grass.

There is a palace and wooden bridge that are must-sees when lit up at night.

It also has lots of quirky little tourist things like themed cafes, scooters dressed up like Snoopy, and novelty foods.

After a long day of walking we went to a brilliant cafe… soak your feet in an epsom salt bath while drinking your beverage, followed by a foot massage.

We spent a day at the UNESCO World Heritage village of Yangdong, which has been around since 1459.

This dog was so friendly. Notice how his dog house even has the Korean roof lines!

We hiked the Namsan Historic Trail, which took us past sculptures and carvings that were 1000 years old.

And finally… food. We have had some delicious eats, with highlights being dumplings, cold noodles, and bipimbap. We stood in line at a very busy place to try the famous egg bread stuffed with red bean paste, which was ok but not a ‘need to go back’ snack.

One night Dee wasn’t feeling well, so I went out on my own for dinner. I’ll admit it, I was a little too cocky. I thought that after all of this travelling I could go into a local restaurant without an English menu or pictures and order something that I would enjoy eating. Somehow I ended up with mystery meat/organ meat soup. The worst part was that the cook was so kind and was watching me for signs of enjoyment. After a couple of meaty bits and all of the side dishes I feigned being too full from all the deliciousness.

I felt so bad because it was beautifully presented, but I couldn’t eat it.

I’ll leave you with some other shots around town, as well as other temples that are all decked out for the birthday celebrations.

Arigatou Japan

My hike ended in a town called Kii-Katsuura, which is famous for its hot springs and tuna. I went to the largest tuna market in Japan and it blew my mind that this many fish are auctioned off every morning.

There are numerous free foot soaks around the town and it was delightful to sit with my feet in hot springs water while people watching one afternoon.

Where I live the only tuna I get to eat is out of a tin can, so I made sure to get my fill of fresh tuna. For supper I went to a tiny ma&pa shop with great reviews. Another specialty here is rice balls wrapped in pickled mustard leaves, which was part of my set meal.

Getting my breakfast tuna felt like an Amazing Race experience. Outside of the tuna auction the market sells only 20 set meals for breakfast. It was lined up and there was definitely some sketchy queue behaviour going on so I started out 14th in line but was closer to 18th when the doors opened. There were 2 automatic machines that we had to run to and punch in our orders. I was at a severe disadvantage as the machine was mostly in Japanese. Somehow I managed to figure it out and get my tuna bowl. It is now officially my ‘death row meal’. I will dream about this tuna for years I’m sure.

I made my way via 3 trains, a cable car, and a bus to the World Heritage Site of Koyasan. Since the year 806 this mountain town has been the central hub of teachings of Shingon Buddhism and has 117 temples dedicated to teaching these Esoteric Buddhist traditions.

It was rainy one of the mornings which added to the mysticism of the place.

I was in awe of the spruce trees, many of which are 800 years old. I also met an umbrella cherry tree that was planted 600 years ago.

The monk who brought Shingon Buddhism to Japan was named Kobo Daishi and his Mausoleum is at the end of a 2km long cemetery that is the most memorable cemetery that I’ve visited.

It is a thing to go to the cemetery at night. The night I went was rainy and foggy, which made it capital F Freaky! At one point an owl started hooting and I decided it was time to get outta there.

Scared of my own shadow!

There are 52 temples that offer lodging to visitors. I stayed 2 nights in one of the oldest, called Shojoshinin. Each morning I could attend the morning chanting ceremony and one day I participated in a ‘holy fire ritual’. I was given a wooden ‘goma-ki’ on which to write a wish. During the ceremony I placed it in the fire, where it is said that ‘your troubles and disasters will be burnt down, leaving peace and happiness in the world, and making your dreams come true’.

At the temple they serve guests the same meals that the monks receive, which is a called Shoujin Ryouri. According to my guide, ‘this elaborate vegetarian cuisine incorporates authentic preparation of the five flavours, colours, and seasonal delights which are not only good for the body, but for the mind and soul as well’. I found the food to be delicious apart from a few textures that my mouth rejected!

I’m thankful that I’ve had the chance to spend time in such a special, sacred place. I hope to carry some of the simplicity and peacefulness with me as I continue my travels. Next (and final) stop: South Korea!

Kumano Kodo

This week I’ve been hiking the Kumano Kodo pilgrimage in a mountainous region of Japan called the Kii Peninsula. I first heard about the hike because it is the sister hike to the Camino de Santiago in Spain.

There are many similarities between the 2 hikes:

  • They are the only two UNESCO world heritage hikes in the world.
  • They are thousands of years old and started as religious pilgrimages, the Kumano Kodo being a route taken by everyone from commoners to emperors seeking healing and salvation through the Kumano faith (contains elements of Shinto, Shugendo, mountain worship, and Buddhism).
  • There are a network of hikes that can be done with the goal being the cathedral in Santiago de Compostela for the Camino and the Kumano Sanzan, the 3 grand shrines of Kumano.
  • Along the routes one can collect stamps as proof of completion. Though this may not appeal to everyone it is one of the things that I love the most about both routes. I really enjoy having the goal of finding the stamps and a meaningful souvenir to look back on.

At Kii-Tanabe, the starting point of the hike, it is tradition to do a Shiogori salt-water purification. I washed my hands in the ocean here as has been done for thousands of years.

Less than 1km into my hike I encountered another tradition. There is a tiny opening in a grouping of rocks. Pilgrims are encouraged to squeeze through the opening as a symbol of going through the birth canal. It was so small that the average sized man ahead of me could not fit through. If he hadn’t pulled my backpack through for me there would have been no way I could have jammed it through. Japanese people are typically small framed, but this was extreme. Re-birthed, I continued on.

I travelled the Nakahechi route, which is about 70kms with significant elevation gain and loss as it travel over mountain passes. There were times when I thought that the natural stone or root steps were never going to end! The last day in particular was a grind; 1000m of elevation gain in the first 4 kms.

I hiked through cedar forests, bamboo groves, and areas where the Japanese maples were almost glowing in the sunlight.

At this viewpoint the signpost reads “Please take a moment to enjoy this panoramic view, as pilgrims have been doing for over 1000 years”.

There were shrines all along the route, from carved rocks to small statues, to larger temples.

I stayed in tiny guesthouses along the way. I splurged more than usual and had most of my meals included. What a luxury it was to arrive to a feast for dinner, a filling breakfast, and a lunch box packed for me to take along the way. Though I had no idea what I was eating most of the time, I really loved all of the different flavours and textures, with one exception of some mystery meat that I avoided.

Wearing my provided Japanese PJs

When I reached the first grand shrine, Kumano Hongu Taisha, I was able to participate in something very special. Those who have proof of completion of a Camino and the Kumano Kodo can register to become a Dual Pilgrim. This includes a pin, special stamp, certificate written on Japanese rice paper, a golden shell with a three-legged crow on it (symbol of the Kumano Kodo), AND the chance to participate in a drum ceremony at the temple.

Receiving the certificate and then having the drum vibrations reverberating through me was a more emotional experience for me than I would have predicted. It reminded me of all of the friends, experiences, and lessons that I have learned through the 3 pilgrimages that I have done.

I took advantage of many onsens (Japanese hot baths) along the way. One of my guesthouses had a wood fired onsen… melt!

I had a ‘rest day’ at Yunomine Onsen, which is a tiny village around one of the oldest hot springs in Japan. There is a world heritage onsen called Tsuboyu that is a tiny cabin by the creek in the middle of the stream running through town. Legends report many stories of healing from soaking in these waters. My hostel also has its own onsen and you better believe I spent time soaking there.

Legend says the water changes colour 7 times throughout the day.

I decided to ‘double down’ on my medicinal hot spring exposure. I drank coffee made from the hot spring waters and for supper I cooked eggs and sweet potatoes in little mesh pouches set in the stream. Heck, I even ate onsen porridge for breakfast!

The three shrines are all different and beautiful in their own ways.

  • Kumano Hongo Taisha
  • Kumano Nachi Taisha, set beside Japan’s highest waterfall
  • Kumano Hayarama Taisha

You may be wondering how I’m feeling after all of this cleansing, re-birthing, eating/drinking/soaking in medicinal waters, and spiritual pilgrimage. I am experiencing a profound feeling of gratitude. I’m grateful for our planet and the opportunities to be in nature. I am so grateful that my body is able to participate in these adventures. I am grateful that RobO supports and encourages me to do these activities, and sometimes comes along too. I am grateful that I have a career that I am still passionate about and a workplace that allows me this time off to pursue other passions. And I am grateful for family, friends, and those who I meet along life’s path.

First glimpse of the world’s largest torii gate

Art is Life

Almost 30 years ago I had the chance to participate in a school exchange program to Japan. I spent my 18th birthday camping at the base of Mount Fuji! It was the 90s and pre-internet so I had never eaten Japanese food and I had no understanding of Japanese culture. I’ll never forget being with my host family at a sushi restaurant when, not knowing what it was, I ate a huge spoonful of wasabi. I tried so hard to ‘play it cool’ and not alert my host family that I was dying but obviously they figured it out really quickly.

I believe that my first trip to Japan was the start of my insatiable desire to see the world through the lens of other cultures. I have been wanting to come back to Japan for a long time (cancelled twice during Covid) and these days are exactly what I hoped they would be. Now I can’t wait to come back again with RobO, so I’ve given him notice that the first seat sale that I see I am booking (KerryV… are you on it?!).

In Osaka my flowers and food frenzy continued. The Mint Museum opens their gardens to the public for only 1 week of the year: peak Sakura bloom. According to their website, “For over 140 years ever since the lane was first opened in 1883, this annual event has been cherished by people as a poetical spring-time feature of Osaka”. I was lucky enough to score a free ticket on the complicated Japanese-only website. There are 140 different varieties of the trees which are carefully labelled. They also choose 1 variety to be the ‘flower of the year’. This year’s choice is called Ranran and is named in memory of the death of a giant panda. The flowers bloom in almost-white clusters like the fur of the panda.

Just before my time to go into the gardens the sky got very dark and it started pouring.

I took refuge in a nearby mall and found a great spot for an udon lunch.

My wanders also took me to Osaka castle for both day and night sights.

I had a very serendipitous experience while looking for a park. I was walking by a concrete, non-descript building when I noticed that there was a long lineup inside. As I watched I could see that people were receiving matcha tea and mochi balls but the process was an intricate art. It turned out to be the cafe outside of an art museum. It was a very powerful statement that there were no pictures on the walls or colour to distract: the art was the way they were serving the tea and sweets. After my treat I visited the gardens behind the gallery which were private and peaceful.

Osaka is a big, vibrant city known for its nightlife and food scene. The markets and shopping streets make Las Vegas feel like a library. To be honest, as a solo traveller I felt quite overwhelmed and preferred the less-busy side streets.

The famous Glico sign

I spent one morning at the Sumiyoshi Taisha Shrine, which was a stark contrast to the night streets. I was excited to collect a stamp from the shrine, which is foreshadowing to what I will be doing over the next week.

According to my research there were 2 must try foods here:

  • Takoyaki, which are octopus filled batter balls. I had the variety pack, which included 4 flavours. YUM!
  • Okonomiyaki, which is a type of savoury pancake. Also delicious, though would have been better to share as I got a little tired of the same flavour.

I had booked a special activity as an early birthday present to myself: a kintsugi class. Kintsugi is the process of repairing cracked or chipped pottery using gold. To do the full process takes at least a month because of the time that it takes for the lacquer (made from sap) to cure. In this workshop we were shown each of the steps, but we only did 2 of them: painting on a thin coat of the lacquer, the sprinkling it with 24 carat gold powder. After a few more days Josuke will do the final coating and polishing to our pieces.

I loved that kintsugi has many similarities to pottery: it requires full concentration so it is meditative and easy to enter flow-state, there are many steps along the process, and my hands were occupied and dirty so there’s no desire to reach for my phone. Josuke also drew parallels between kintsugi and life: we all have scars and cracks and it’s part of what shapes us to be beautiful. It’s part of our history.

I’ve had enough big city time, so it’s time to head to the mountains to do some hiking. I’ll leave you with some final pics from Osaka.

I’m missing the start of Expo by 1 day!

(Flowers + Food)x10

After a series of flight delays I arrived in Tokyo close to midnight and with my lack of sleep, long customs lines, phone problems, and transit closures I had a near meltdown. Everything, it seemed, was opposite in Japan to what I was now used to from Sri Lanka. Everything is so quiet you could hear a pin drop. It is extremely clean and orderly, almost sterile. It is so easy to be ‘anonymous’ here that I felt like Bruce Willis from The Sixth Sense. Even crossing the street, which is like a game of trust in Sri Lanka, is safety extreme because there is no jaywalking. I might as well been on the moon!
After a reasonable night’s sleep I got my bearings and set off. I started off with some delicious 7-11 breakfast.

I headed on foot to Ueno park. When booking this trip I was sure that I would be too late to see the cherry blossoms (Sakura), but with the late spring they were at peak bloom just 3-4 days ago. It was so peaceful to sit and eat my breakfast with the delicate petals falling like gentle snow around me… until I heard the jarring sound of shouting. A Japanese man was screaming at an idiot tourist, “Do not touch the blossoms!! Do you understand?!?!”. I have learned that the Sakura season is very beloved by the Japanese.

As I continued my wandering I came across a tiny park where I had some Sakura all to myself. It was a very special feeling.

Eventually I arrived at the area called Jimbocho which is well known for used and antique bookshops, coffee shops, and small galleries. It was a great wander and find a woodblock print for our tiny art collection.

I had heard that I had to try the egg salad sandwiches here and the rumours are true. It was a little pocket sandwich with a hint of sweet. Delicious.

One of the things that I had reserved prior to coming here was a ticket to Teamlab Planets. It is an interactive art exhibit that truly has to be experienced to describe it. Some highlights for me:

  • A room filled with real orchids that move up and down creating walkways and areas to move through.
  • A place where you can colour a picture of a butterfly/dolphin/airplane. It is scanned and then ‘comes alive’ around the room. I watched my butterfly soar on 360 degree screens around me.
  • A mirrored area filled with long strips of LED lights that would change colour.
  • A large room filled with water almost to my knees. There are projections of Koi swimming and flower petals floating in the water.

I headed back to Asakusa where I’m staying and got the best recommendation for dinner. I wish I would have trained my stomach to be able to eat more because all I want to do here is eat!

Asakusa is an area that maintains the traditional vibe of Japan. It is filled with tiny shops, cafes, restaurants, and is book-ended by the Sensō-Ji temple and Kaminarimon Gate.

The next morning I visited Asakusa in the daylight and enjoyed a birds-eye view from the tourist centre.

I had read about a food here called Melon Pan, so picked one up from breakfast. I don’t know how a simple bread filled with whipped cream can be so melt-in-your-mouth. It tasted like a cloud. No, a cloud with a silver lining. Nope, a cloud with a silver lining and a care bear living on it.

I took the metro to the famous Shibuya Scramble Crossing, the world’s most popular pedestrian crossing. It was just as imagined, really.

Nearby I found a conveyor belt sushi place for lunch. It was so fun to order a dish on an iPad screen and minutes later have it arrive via conveyor belt. Yum!

Tokyo has lots of beautiful green spaces and I made my way through Yoyogi Park on my way to Shinjuku. Many Japanese families set up picnics under the Sakura in the parks.

I took a free tour of the Tokyo Government Metropolitan building before heading up to the 45th floor for views of the city. Here’s my cute tour guide standing under the world record high jump height.

I loved the 3D cat billboard and food alleyways in this area.

I was considering skipping the Shinjuku Gyoen National Garden but was so glad that I went, and even more glad that I was there for golden hour.

I picked a supper spot based on how many locals were eating there and ordered random things, all of which were delicious.

I found the famous Godzilla head on my way back to the Government Metropolitan building for their nightly light show. It’s in the Guinness Book of World Records for largest light projection.

This morning I lined up early for the reputed best breakfast in the area. I’ve always been ‘take it or leave it’ with miso soup, but this one with spinach and sweet potatoes I would take every time. I had no idea that something as simple as a hard boiled egg could be so exquisite. I joked that it tasted like Jesus had laid it himself.

After packing up I was off on the bullet train to Osaka. Unfortunately the picture on my bento box was my only view of Mount Fuji as it was clouded over. Don’t ask me what the items were in the bento: I have no idea! In fact, I saved the bottom right area thinking it was dessert, which it wasn’t.

Hopefully you like looking at pictures of Japanese food because I guess that’s my photo focus right now. Tokyo has left me wanting more… I will definitely be back!

Pink and Grey (and Blue)

From Sigiriya we decided to go on an adventure… we wanted to try to reach Jathika Nemal Uyana (Pink Quartz Mountain) using public transportation, even though we couldn’t find any info on the web about getting there by bus. How hard could it be? We took a bus to Dambulla and we were waiting on another bus to get to a part-way town called Madatugama when we were approached by a persistent tuk tuk driver who kept telling us that we would have to take a tuk tuk, so we should just pay him. Undeterred and very stubbornly we sat on the stationary hot bus for another 20 minutes while he tried to wait us out. Eventually the bus roared to life and the adventure continued. Unfortunately he was right about not being able to take another bus the rest of the way so we hired a (much cheaper) tuk tuk to take us to the wooded park.

It was a beautiful walk through the forest before we got our first glimpses of pink. The mountain is SE Asia’s largest deposit of pink quartz and is thought to be 500 million years old. It was so neat to be hiking on what is normally gravel, but was tiny pebbles of pink quartz.

On the way home we had a great interaction with a security guard who kept us company when we waited for a bus, then bartered us a tuk tuk to a different part-way town for a successful series of buses home. Take that, doubting tuk tuk guy!

We had another great visit with our Sigriya tuk tuk driver, Anu, who took us to a more local spot for sunset views. If you’re ever planning to come here let me know and I’ll connect you with him as he was our favourite person in Sri Lanka.

After another looong distance bus we arrived in Polonnaruwa, which is the 2nd oldest of Sri Lanka’s kingdoms and a World Heritage Site. We explored the huge area of ruins by bike until the heat chased us back to our guesthouse. A consistent theme of this trip is sitting in front of fans in our underwear; it is THAT HOT!

The next morning we were up at the crack of dawn to go on an elephant safari. RockyB had never seen elephants in the wild and it was an auspicious start when we saw our first one walking up the side of the highway! We had the chance to see numerous grey gentle giants, often quite close to our jeep. We were pleased that our guide seemed quite respectful of giving the animals space and we often found ourselves away from the ‘herd’ of jeeps that seemed too intense.

Our guide was very into the birds of the area and I can honestly say that I am becoming quite a ‘bird nerd’. I didn’t have our zoom lens so the pictures suck, but we saw some really colourful green bee eaters, chestnut headed bee eaters, kingfishers, brahminy kites, and great spotted eagles. Have you ever seen a peacock fly? What an unexpectedly cool thing to see.

I have about a hundred pictures of us enjoying cold drinks during the trip, another definite ‘beat the heat’ theme (pictured are king coconuts, coconut shakes, soursop(Rocky)/passionfruit(me) shakes).

The food in Sri Lanka has been delicious. At times we have been missing vegetables as it’s quite heavy of the rice and breads, but we have definitely found our favourites: hoppers, coconut sambol, and dahl curry. I would definitely recommend Sri Lanka as a travel destination. The people are genuine and helpful, and it has the 2nd highest per-capita income in SE Asia. Though it is a developing nation it appears (from what we’ve seen) that most people have their basic needs met and are happy.

After a full day of train travel we arrived back down south, close to the airport. In the ‘would you rather’ game we would both pick a full day on the train over a full day on the bus, but 9 hours is long no matter how you do it! We’re both feeling a little blue as it is our last day of Rock-Awn 7.0. We both are heading to new and exciting adventures, but we have so much fun travelling together that it’s always a little sad to part ways.

I’ll be posting from a new time zone soon, and you can follow RockyB’s adventures at: https://delafrijoles.com/. Rock-Awn!

Special Blessings

Our first night in Kandy we were wandering along and happened upon the world heritage Temple of the Tooth Relic. In order to respectfully enter Buddhist temples you need to have your knees and shoulders covered, and both RockyB and I always have a scarf/sarong at the ready. The eagle-eye security guard noticed that Rocky’s sarong had images of Buddha on it and immediately banned it from entering. She also re-wrapped mine and it was such a tight pencil skirt that I could only take tiny little Geisha-like steps. Rocky paid a deposit to borrow one and in we went.

In the Hindu area of the temple, the temple priest waved us over and did a special blessing for each of us where he held our hands, recited some stuff, and gave us a coloured smear onto our foreheads. This was followed by pointing at the offering plate of money and instructing us to make a donation. I pulled out 100 rupees (about $0.50) and the priest indicated that I was being too much of a cheapskate by pointing to a 500 rupee note (about $2.50). Embarrassed, I complied. I was feeling even more sheepish when RockyB laid down a 1000 rupee note and thought she must have really been ‘feeling it’.

As we were walking away I confessed to Rocky that I felt like such a cheapskate and she started laughing, revealing that she was initially going to give a 50 note but saw my interaction. She realized she had given her last 500 note as a deposit for her sarong so was very reluctantly parting with her 1000! She was contemplating trying to make change from the plate of money but thought better of it. Rock-Awn laughter ensued.

We found a little restaurant where we had a fun travel interaction. Mr. Nathan was extremely attentive: washing our hands for us, wanting to find out all about us, and staring at us as we ate. Of course we had to take photos with him and promised we would come back.

We did go back a couple of days later and he was a good sport about doing a jump shot with us. He’s so excited to stay in touch over WhatsApp. These connections are one of the reasons why I love travelling.

One day we walked up to a huge Buddha statue.

We had great views of Kandy as we could go up to the level of the Buddha’s shoulders. It was such a peaceful and serene setting.

On the walk back down we loved visiting a brightly painted temple.

That evening we revisited the Temple of the Tooth Relic for the evening ceremony, but it felt extremely touristy and confusing. We had much better experiences in the smaller, less crowded temples.

Feeling a bit ‘templed out’ and ‘special blessing-d out’ we spent a day at the Uddawata Kele Sanctuary, a large forest reserve in Kandy. At the entrance we had one of many examples of what I’m calling a ‘change standoff’. In Sri Lanka’s primarily cash society we are constantly trying to strategically break up the large bills dispensed by the bank machines into smaller notes that can be used at restaurants and vendors. It’s not unusual to see tourists going to the grocery store to buy a small item with a 5000 rupee note, just to get change. Frequently when paying the vendor will ask for exact change as they claim they don’t have change to give. Sometimes I have it but don’t want to use it all up, and more often I don’t have the change. Nevertheless it ends up with a staring contest of both of us waiting for the other to find the change. At the forest reserve the entrance fee was 930 rupees, but she said she didn’t have change when I paid with 1000! For the record I won the stand-off and we spent the whole day recharging our batteries in nature.

For the 3rd time I was a stand-in for BRod for their anniversary (10 years, 14 years, and now 20 years!). We celebrated with massages and drinks at an upstairs patio.

We relaxed by Kandy lake one afternoon but got caught sitting under a tree for almost an hour of jungle rain.

We took a couple of buses to get to Sigriya (SEE-gree-ya), our home base for the next 5 nights. Through Booking.com I rented us a room with private bathroom and fantastic daily breakfast for a grand total of $43USD (for all 5 nights!!). The best part (other than no squirrels in the ceiling) is the lovely family who own the property.

We explored the Dambulla Cave Temples, a temple complex that dates back to the first century BCE. The 5 caves are intricately decorated with carvings and painting. After exploring we sat on the steps and watched a troop of monkeys terrorizing tourists and stealing food from offering plates.

My first glimpse of the Sigriya ancient rock fortress gave me the feels. It is called ‘lion rock’ because it used to have a giant lion carving, but now only the feet remain. The palace at the top was constructed in 477AD. It was a sweaty stair climb to the top, but absolutely worth it!

We followed our gut instinct when picking a tuk tuk driver and were rewarded with Anu, who took us around to a few different viewpoints of Sigiriya.

Anu dropped us a Pidurangala in time to hike up for golden hour and sunset. This climb is beside Lion Rock and offers great views of the monument. There are 2 severe bottlenecks on the trail where hikers can only be headed in 1 direction and this resulted in many stoppages and some confusing times where nobody seemed to be hiking down, but we also weren’t moving forwards. There were a few tourists behind us who were trying to queue-jump, but in true Canadian style we politely stood beside each other, elbows up, holding the line.

When we reached the top we understood why so many people wanted to do this hike. The sunset views of Sigiriya and the countryside took my breath away.

Today we opted for a pool day at a hotel down the street and it has been just what we needed. A few more stops are left in this Rock-Awn adventure so I’m sure there will be another blog.

All Aboard

On our last day along the coast we walked over to Unawatuna, which is a beach with good beginner surfing waves. We had each taken 1 surf lesson previously and were keen to try it again. We walked onto the beach and in classic Rock-Awn style we chose the first surfer dude who approached us about lessons. We headed out to the break and got to it. Similarly to my first experience I was able to get up relatively easily and LOVED IT. As a typical non-water sport person, I can definitely say surfing is at the top of my list. At one point Rocky and I were both in the shallows and here’s how our interaction went:

  • Me (grinning ear to ear like an eager beaver), “This is so great!!!!!”
  • Rocky (person who loves being in water usually), “I fu$#&n hate this!!!!”

You know how they say that married couples start becoming like one another? Maybe after 7 Rock-Awns we are starting to morph into one another.

The next morning we were up bright and early to see about a bus to the town of Ella. We couldn’t find any solid info on a schedule but we had 3 anecdotal stories about a 6am bus. We were so jazzed when a bus came along, we identified that it was the one we were looking for, and we were able to do the mad rush on to get seats! We had to make 1 bus transfer and our aisle seat mate shepherded us to the next bus, which was adorned with a neon Lakshmi goddess. The excitement wore off after 7 hours of loud, hot, crowded, stuffy bus time, so when we scrambled off the bus we needed to regroup with a cold drink.

Ella is a town in the mountainous area of Sri Lanka so the climate is not so melty. We wandered around but were too chicken to cross under a bridge on the main highway with lots of traffic and no sidewalks.

We did a small hike to the 9 Arch Bridge. We were nervous to walk on the tracks and then realized that crazy people stay on the bridge even when the train is going by!

We also hiked up Little Adam’s peak for great views.

We visited the beautiful Mahamevnawa Monastery and had a great tour with a monk.

We finally braved walking under the tunnel without sidewalks en route to the Kinellan Tea Factory. Sri Lanka was historically known as Ceylon and one of its major exports is tea. The factory was sweltering inside, so hot that it has become a repeating choice in our ‘would you rather’ game (ie. Would you rather have to work in the tea factory every day or be a politician? Both of us answered the latter!). We tasted a few varieties and as Rocky made the joke that it was like Ted Lasso says, they all tasted like brown water.

Our accommodation in Ella was in the perfect location and had a beautiful garden area where we saw a mongoose, a grizzled giant squirrel, and numerous types of birds. Unfortunately on our first night we could hear something crawling around in our ceiling and we FREAKED OUT! Hilariously both of us assumed the ‘turtle position’ on the bed, as if that would protect us. We frantically knocked on the door of our host, who told us that it was just some really cute squirrels. Because they were reportedly ‘cute’ we calmed down, though each morning when we were woken up by them fighting/playing/mating/dancing on our thin particle board ceiling our ‘fight or flight’ kicked in.

This morning we boarded a scenic train to the city of Kandy. This was the #1 thing on both of our ‘must-do’ lists, and it did not disappoint. The 8 hour train didn’t feel like 8 hours, until the end when it definitely felt like 8 hours! It winds through tea plantations, forests, and villages, with views of temples and waterfalls.

It is an open air, open door train, which means that at every opportunity gringos are hanging out of the train for the perfect photo op… including us!

I don’t know how she did it, but Rocky booked us the cheapest 3rd class tickets and we somehow had the whole train car almost all to ourselves. Our train official was hard core about keeping the other people in their rightful carriages.

We were glad we ordered the ‘pile of rice’ lunch.

We had lots of fun in Kandy already, but I’ll save that for the next blog!

Rock-Awn 7.0 – Sweating in Sri Lanka

RockyB and I were excited to meet up for our 7th trip together and so far it has already been filled with adventures. We spent a couple of days in the capital city of Colombo, where we put in 30,000 steps per day exploring. Highlights included:

  • The Lotus tower
  • Buddhist temples, including one on the water and one with a massive Bodhi tree
  • The red and white mosque: our tour was led by the sweetest Muslim guy I could have imagined. We wished we could have done a recording of him singing a verse of the Quran. The mosque’s red and white colours and dome shapes are representative of a pomegranate, which is featured in many verses.
  • Figuring out the different transportation systems like tuk tuks and the bus!

For distance travel in Sri Lanka, trains are the way to go. We hopped a 2.5 hour train to the seaside city of Galle (pronounced Goal) and loved every second of it: tasting the foods being sold by hawkers, clapping along with a group of young people drumming and singing, and seeing the coastal views out of the open air windows and doors.

One of Galle’s main attractions is a walled fort town that has architecture from Dutch, Portuguese, and British colonial days. We walked around on an afternoon where the humidity was so high I felt like I could have taken a bite out of the air. In a Rock-Awn first we have been having to say ‘uncle’ and duck into air conditioned shops and cafes to cool down!

This morning we visited a sea turtle hatchery and recovery centre. They take in sea turtles that have been sick or injured, as well as protect eggs and babies. It was heartbreaking to see turtles that were sick from eating plastic, blind, had abscesses, or got caught in a boat motor. We had the chance to release some babies back to the ocean. I hope the little guys do ok out there.

After our time with the turtles we were walking along the beach and it was SO hot and SO beautiful that we did another Rock-Awn first… we stripped down to our undies and spent some time in the waves. The surf was rough and it was my first time getting sucked into the rip and pounded into the sand. When we got back to our hotel and into the shower I realized that I had about 3 cups of sand in my undies and another cup in my hair.

We’ve been tasting a lot of Sri Lankan foods and have had some hilarious ‘lost in translation’ moments along the way. I’m looking forward to more Rock-Awn moments!