Slow Travel

One of my goals for this 6 months is to take time to slow down, breathe, and savour the experiences. So far, so good, and this week in Luang Prabang is an exceptional exercise in slow travel. We have a main activity each day, but the rest of our time is spent wandering, exploring, tasting, and absorbing. This leads us to some unexpected things: sipping homemade whiskey with a local (hoping we would not go blind) then trying to plan a graceful escape from the situation, practicing English with kids in the market, and the feeling of almost floating from the awesome vibrations of a temple full of chanting monks.

One day we spend a couple of hours at the Kuang Si waterfalls nearby. At the entrance to the park is a conservation area for Moon Bears, which look like a really hairy version of the black bears we have at home. 


I had read reviews that the hike to the top of the waterfalls was underwhelming, but we decide to explore it anyway. It turns out to be my favorite part of the day. A really friendly guy in a very sketchy boat rows us about 15 minutes to the ‘source’ of the waterfalls. What looked like just a regular part of the stream is actually 45 meters deep – an underwater cave that is the reservoir for the roaring falls. 

We spend two (exhausting but worthwhile) hours at Big Brother Mouse, which is a free school where kids can go to practice speaking English. Not once, not twice, but three hilarious times I am asked if Rox is my older sister. I seem to think it’s funnier than she does.

Propelled by our discomfort from seeing tourists so blatantly disrespecting the Buddhist traditions, we spend a couple of hours on a tour learning from a young man who spent 2 years as a novice (young monk). He answers our list of monk and temple related questions. We now have an understanding so we don’t unintentionally do something rude or disrespectful. Speaking of the monks, I’m pleased to report that there is no longer ecstatic drumming at 4am, just a little bit of softer drumming. We think it had to do with the full moon, though have not gotten a clear answer on this one.

Otherwise, we round out our days with a yoga class, biking in the countryside, a massage and herbal sauna, shopping the night market, and working our way through a long list of Laos foods we wanted to try. I have some food pics, but Rox has been much more consistent with this, so if you’re interested I suggest you check out her Laos food blog: www.delafrijoles.com.

It is in the same vein of slow travel that we had decided to take the ‘slow boat’ from Luang Prabang to Chiang Mai, Thailand. We are picked up by the slowest tuk tuk in Laos and delivered to the boat dock about 10kms away. There we board our long, narrow, wooden boat that will take us upstream on the mighty Mekong River to the Thai border. The seats in the boat are actually car seats. They are filled by about 80 people sleeping, daydreaming, and snacking. Check out the size of our food bag!


Over the 2 days (9-ish hours each day) we pass by remote villages, fishing nets, elephants bathing in the river, and many fires (it’s the time of year when farmers burn their crops). The nights we stop in local towns to lay our heads in rock hard $8 guesthouse beds.

On the 3rd morning we cross the border and take a long hot minibus to arrive in Chiang Mai. One day here to eat as much mango sticky rice as possible, then it will be the end of this Rock-Awn 3.0 adventure. A Rock-Off, if you will. We’re already thinking about a version 4.0!

Blog on a River Kwai

Our final stop on DawnO’s 40th bday trip is a small town called Kanchanaburi. This is where the infamous bridge on the River Kwai is located. It was constructed by prisoners of war of the Japanese army. Once constructed, the bridge allowed Japan to expand its forces further west. Thousands of POWs and civilians died in in order to complete it.

I’m not certain but I don’t believe it is quite the bridge it used to be as this was made of metal. I believe the original was constructed out of wood. People are allowed to walk on it but trains still use it. There are platforms off to the side where people can stand out of harms way.

Near one end of the bridge is the WWII and Jeath Museum which only I visited. There was a sign at the entrance that claimed you hadn’t truly arrived in Kanchanaburi if you didn’t enter the museum… I guess DawnO is forever on the doorstep.

The museum was filled with old WWII relics and though it was pretty disorganized, it was worth a walk around. Where else would I find the following words of wisdom:

Kanchanaburi allowed us to check off another bucket list item. One of their forms of transportation is a scooter with a sidecar. Riding in a sidecar just happens to be on our list.

On our last day we took a day trip out to Erawan and hiked to a series of 7 waterfalls. Dawn convinced me to take my swimming trunks but I wasn’t sure I’d want to jump in the water. By the time we reached the final waterfall I suited up and took the plunge.

Thailand has been a lovely country to visit. We’ve enjoyed every day of our trip. Luckily the weather cooperated and we didn’t see too much rain at all. We are leaving here wanting to return some day and see more. I asked DawnO to give me a rating out of 40 and she gave me a solid 40 so I guess the surprise birthday holiday was a success.

All the Things…

We’ve loved our time in the city of Chiang Mai. I think we’ve done pretty much all of the stereotypical ‘tourist things’ that people do in Northern Thailand. I mean, we’re pretty much one Full Moon Party away from being qualified to write the next edition of the Lonely Planet.

Temple visits: we followed the guide book walking tour, as well as enjoyed exploring without a map.

Mango sticky rice: we’ve been enjoying this classic dish for breakfast every morning. RobO said he’s pretty sure that it’s what Captain Crunch and Toucan Sam eat for breakfast. If you haven’t had it, imagine rice, coconut milk, sugar, and mangos. Then give yourself a shot of insulin.

Cooking class: we chose an ‘express class’ that was 2 hours and happened to be at a vegetarian place. I’m pretty sure we’ll be able to replicate the 4 dishes that we made (which includes mango sticky rice) when we’re back home. Yum.

Tailor-made clothing: RobO’s workmates better get the catwalk ready. Cue ‘I’m too sexy’…

Tattoo: it’s been on my list for a while and I’m thrilled with the result. It’s a reminder of the lessons I learned when I walked the Camino de Santiago. For the moms reading, the place was very sterile and clean.

Thai massage: I got up early and stood in line to get an appointment at the Women’s Prison Massage Center, where inmates are trained so they have a career when they get out. It was an amazingly relaxing 2 hours!

If you are in Medicine Hat and want to try an authentic Thai massage without having to buy a plane ticket you can book with Roxanne at shine8out.ca. She was trained here (not in the prison, but in Chiang Mai).

Street market: Every Sunday the centre streets close to traffic and open to every kind of trinket seller you can imagine.

Throw in delicious Thai food at every meal and it’s pretty much the perfect holiday.

Tomorrow we’re off to our final stop on our Thai tour. Sorry RockyB, you have to wait for the next blog to find out where we chose!

Charlie Bucket List

Most of you know that DawnO has a bucket list that seems to grow at the same rate we check things off. When I began planning her birthday trip, it was the first thing I looked at for inspiration. It is quite an eclectic list but there was one item in particular that stuck out:

  • snuggle a baby elephant

This is how I decided on Thailand. This country has many Elephant Sanctuaries to choose from, although none would guarantee an “X” on DawnO’s list.

I booked an overnight trip that promised a home stay at a local Karen village, a hike to a waterfall and exclusive time with the elephants without the crowd that comes with the 1 day tour. We were quick to discover that the online description was not exactly what we would get. The “home stay at a local Karen village” turned out to be a group camp with 11 other tourists. The furthest we would ever hike was about 200 meters between our truck and a lunch site with other tour groups. This was slightly disappointing but the experience with the animals was still worth it.

We spent day one with about 25 other people interacting with a family of 6 elephants. There were 2 younger elephants (named Lady GaGa and Rhiana), but both were a bit big for a proper snuggle. We fed them bananas, sugar cane and “medicine” made up of bananas and rice. DawnO and I each got a kiss from and elephant, which is about as weird as a giraffe kiss. Basically the elephant uses his trunk to suck on your cheek making the sound of a raspberry while leaving behind a slobbery wet spot.

Next on the itinerary was a mud bath followed by a rinse in the nearby creek.

The evening group camp was not too far from the elephant camps. We were able to escape the others and do some exploring while our delicious Thai food was being prepared.

Day 2 involved a trip to another elephant camp which included the mud baths. Afterwards we went to a cascading river (I think this was supposed to be the “waterfall”) for lunch and then spent some time with an elephant away from the large crowds. This girl was a hugger.

Our tour was almost over but we had one last stop to make before we headed back in to Chiang Mai…

…meet Charlie

This handsome young man is a 1 month old male that was shy at first, but eventually warmed up to a snuggle.

  • snuggle a baby elephant X

Say Wat?!?!

It’s my turn for a big birthday and big trip! I was supposed to find out the surprise destination on July 1st, but RobO innocently let it slip about 3 weeks early… Thailand!

We had a late night arrival in Bangkok and left there about noon the next day. We really only had time for a great night’s sleep, some street food eats, an underwear purchase (someone forgot to pack them!), and an array of transportation to get to the town of Ayutthaya.

Ayutthaya was the capital of Siam between 1350 and 1767 and is home to many elaborate temples (called Wats). It’s popular to cycle from Wat to Wat, which is what we spent today doing. We also took a boat tour to a couple of spots. I guess they’re also lit up at night, but we’ve had monsoon rains both of our nights here (the 2nd time we were smart enough to have raincoats at the ready!).

I don’t want to overdo it with ruins pictures, but these things are so beautiful I have to put them in.

No Thailand blog could be complete without some food pics. We have been eating Thai food to our heart’s content and loving everything we’ve tasted.

Now we’re headed up north for (spoiler alert) time with some elephants!